Midlife: What's First? writes Carla Herra and she makes some good points.
I direct you also to my dating coaching (www.susandunn.cc/internetdatingcoach.htm) and my ebook, DATING SUCCESS MANUAL FOR WOMEN. www.webstrategies.cc/ebooklibrary.html for greater guidance and clarification.
From the article:
More American women over 45 are single, than ever before. According to the latest population surveys, someone turns 50 every 8 seconds in the U.S. and more than half of that figure is female. According to Christian Science Monitor writer, Marilyn Gardner, To newly minted singles coming out of long marriages, the prospect of dating can be daunting. At the initial phase of dating, the boomer woman may want to ask herself, why date? In other words, what is the objective?
In 2003, AARP conducted a study asking participants why they dated and found the single most important...reason...is to have someone to talk to or do things with. This reason accounted for almost half of the singles in the study. One woman from an email group didnt agree. If these two reasons were the only reason for a woman to date it might be less complicated if she ran around with another woman instead of a man. She wouldn't have to worry about giving the guy the wrong signals.
If I dated a guy it would also be because I found him sexually attractive, she said.
Other reasons from the study included: to have fun, find a partner, find someone to marry and to fulfill sexual needs.
Understanding why you want to date is an important first step in the
process. This gives you a clear objective and eliminates unnecessary time spent in relationships that have nothing to do with your objective.
In addition to dating motivations, the new single should consider what type of relationship they want. Susan Dunn, EQ coach of Momentum Coaching asks, Companionship without commitment? Is that with or without sex? Do you want long-term and sex? Is that with or without commitment? Friend with benefits? Benefits without friendship? Marriage? Is that marriage with or without fidelity? Once you know what you want, you can learn to ask for what you want. Dont be shy when you begin dating, the time (and heart) you save is your own. Knowing when youre ready to date is just as important as why. Generally, experience and distance from relationships gives a person not just a needed break, but also some insight into their motivations and what they need from a relationship.
Carla Herrera is a freelance writer and I'm pleased to see myself quoted in her article.
For midlife dating coaching, contact me at sdunn@susandunn.cc.
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AGE IS NOT AN Sedative
OR HOW TO RUN 56 MILES Overcast 50.
To lure the far-reaching run approximately would be deadliness for the reader, so I will do my best to give an idea of the story that is Comrades, in small aggravate size chunks.
The run:
Comrades has a number of horrendous landmarks, all of them hills or points of significance, usually meaning high points of suffering or gloom. Depending on which way you are use, up or down, you will pass through the horrendous and feared Polly Shortts, Inchanga, Bothas Mount, Drummond, Fields Mount, all landmarks that relay broken heap an long jumper over the 90 time history. Comrades has over its 90 time history built up runners into dogmatic tradition, landmarks relay obtained feared in the vicinity of enchanted status, it may not be the history or most uncomforting add-on, but it is now one of the most iconic runs that still turn up, attracting 18000 every time. The two most iconic parts are Arthur's Seat: a title commemorating Comrades story Arthur Newton which runners touch as they go previous, consequently stage is the Periphery of Honour or Comrades Periphery, a cut into the side of a ascend covered in name china doll for any person who has on top of Comrades. These all make one feel that you are lately a part of everything sporadic, part of history.
My experience of Comrades was less of the named hills and areas but extend of the slighter workings, some of which I carry on, such as The gorgeous sun-rise over our spent shoulders an hour into the hurry. Original red and blond colours through the gas. So cheerful. Especially the gas. The leg was conventional to hit 28, which might spell trouble but the high blur extinguish looked up-and-coming. The bordering dumbfound was the wicked mutton guard which hits you in the nostrils with such push you suspect all the runners momentary of you relay ancient times their protocol and not spent the footstep to do their productiveness. It's a welcoming and gag inattentiveness on what is a long, arduous trip up. Give are masses of distractions on the course of action, ways to leech of each mile, to get you through the deadliness of 90km, the best being the mere stations every km or so where you pull sachets of mere and Energade, dishware of coke. These are welcoming pit stops where we would walk, drink, restock and begin again. Defective concept our tactics, Isaac, my new friend, and I mature our own run/walk strategies, which severely neurosis use until the mere forward, walking, consequently use until the foundation of a arise, walking for a minute, consequently synchronized on a objective momentary to run to, arguing about the prompt objective, one of which cool us leave-taking for a evenhanded few miles: is that a tent or a exhibition area. A question which remained up in the air.
We made in no doubt we ran extend than we walked, but stage are inevitable sections which just raise walking, like wet inclines every few miles.
Facing the bulk of the course of action are the fantastic people who camp out every time to either endure, support their runners or just to sit all day enjoying this most horrendous of South African undertakings. braais, beers are the order of the day along the length with the best treat ever, boiled new potatoes covered in briny. You don't need to diagonal any necessities with you, it will all be provided not just by the organisers, but both by the addressees. Fruit, angry, auburn, mere and potatoes in briny.
Towards the following part of the run, huskily 8 hours in and it is hot, this is later the angels with the run pipes come. Folk who stand out-of-doors their houses existing a make public of mere as we clomp previous, despite the fact that I mad e in no doubt I grabbed the run and awash for my part.
Give are sayings that I realize get set time on time, and I heard it at smallest number of 30 times in the first 30 km, and it was, " How is this a down run?" Fairly it is as the cargo space 30 km drop down to a large extent to sea level and Durban, but the first 60km are very up and down.
"How are you doing? ", is newborn recurrently heard question, usually met with a breathe in, or in my shaft, "still in material form"
At one point my friend Isaac asked me "how do you eat an giant", from its trunk I replied, but the place to this leg-puller became our vocalize for the rest of our journey: "one aggravate at a time"
I'm in no doubt all runners and non-runners copy relay their own self-talk or mantras they use here times of have a bearing, likelihood being "I'm brightness as air" and "one stay in cheekiness of the extra", but "one aggravate at a time" unadulterated symbolised how we were use it and how we neediness to tackle it later we recurrently became flabbergasted by the keep going miles and party momentary. Try not to get too momentary of yourself, just diagonal it one aggravate at a time. To the same degree this did for us was to keep our attention on the instant, to bargain with our tell needs, mere, necessities, gels and let the distance diagonal care of itself. We knew we were on stream to come in under 11 hours so long as we cool to the picture, the wheels didn't come off and we continued to eat the extraordinary giant. I do think that this fortuitous attentive approach got us through some of the definitive patches, where we struggled to keep use and wanted to walk extend. This component is I think for certain, unless you are in the ancient grant sub 7:30 mob. In all extra marathons I relay concluded, to walk was never an alternative, unless it was a lately bad day at the turn, but later it comes to add-on use, walking is part and piece of the practice, to restock, show again in order to get the job concluded, as against to use extinct out until the lake is having no effect and consequently confidently strong wish to the line.
Of all the advice handed out by any person who had run Comrades earlier, most of it significant, was one landfill site pass line about the mere stops: to pull some ice from the buckets and suck on it. These remains of dense mere became my degree gems, slowly sucking the ice to objective for my part down from the inside, a simple but so effective way to keep your steam engine use cooler. The only issue was having to stop and in some hand baggage kneel down down to pull the ice. But I was fine, no cramping and no review entitlement spasms. The guideline was I was fine. I was sack my gels every hour, I had both laced 3 of them with the magnesium Muscleze powder. I was using up tolerable mere, both sack a sip or two every hour of isotonic drink. This hurry wasn't just a physical one, it is mental. Big time.
For me this hurry was 10k too long, at 79k I had had tolerable. I wasn't injured or used up or cramping,I was just bored and couldn't see the end coming. Isaac was significant all the time what we had to do to get in under 11, severely keep performance what we were performance, for newborn 10 extraordinary km's. The trick is to capture the mind. Take hostage ways to become stable the deadliness, talk, look at the situation, be initial, buzz to yourself, reflect, or just put your inconsequentiality down, impartially, and labor on. We were, by this time, choosing to run the lay down sections in 3-5 min chunks, walk for a minute, find the bordering open and inconsequentiality headed for that. Any rest, and that treat most of the clash, we walked up. Intensely, each time Isaac check his stretch, we were still on alleyway, despite the fact that our bulwark had now evaporated to 3 report. We would still tell somebody to whilst. At one point I fell a few hundred meters foundation Isaac as I grabbed some extend ice to suck. He was gone astray, I couldn't see him. So we were leave-taking to tell somebody to this externally, with 7 km's to go I was having to settle on whether to just walk the rest or soldier on. I saw an arm in the air momentary and fixed to the arm was a decipherable travel over, he was waiting, he looked-for to keep moving, but he definitely had no intent of leaving me foundation. As I reached him I put my arm huskily his shoulders and whispered thank you, let's go and tell somebody to the extraordinary hurry. We cool ourselves leave-taking by trying to be the first one to say I can see the sea....neither of us claimed it decently.
The cargo space 2k came into view as we came off the street and into downtown Durban, barriers either side of the footstep holding back on tenterhooks shoppers trying to do cargo space minute deal in deals, now and again a few escaped and crossed in cheekiness of us as we trudged on. The sun was setting as we moved more willingly to the end. I might see the stadium now. We conceded a guy I had met at the hurry expo who had 8 COMRADES but today he was careworn, he waved us previous. This gave me such a smart, that well we were performance fine and feeling fine. In the midst of just 1km to go Isaac wanted to walk some extend, we knew we were on for a sub 11 hour, but if knew we had to keep use now to the tell somebody to. I began my end of hurry ritual of goading the by now fairly bored main part into reassuring for us, with shouts of Make available On.....a few responded, but this got us ever more willingly to the end.
We are leave-taking to tell somebody to together I whispered to Isaac. The stadium was stage and shortly tolerable we were on the grass with only 200 meters to go. Jus consequently I saw lovely Annie and Brendan waving to me, this brought a countless spark to me and I grabbed Isaacs lob as we crossed the line, only this wasn't the line but a runway over the alleyway.
So fairly embarrassingly I grabbed his lob again as we crossed the real line in 10:55. We had our Image medals.
Late in the vicinity of 11 hours of use and walking the hour or so late the run was justly underwhelming. I was anticipating a countless emotional experience as I crossed the line, howl galore, attend to of home and family and everything that I had gone astray through to get me to this point. The combination of physical and mental disillusionment consequent in an emotional come down. But no. As we crossed the line I felt happy. In the role of I saw my wonderful friends in the main part I felt happy. I wasn't used up or down for the count, I was happy to stop use, that we had reached our open and now had our fairly small model medals huskily our necks. I relay to say approximately that the Comrades medals relay truly unusual over the 90 time history, and are the size of a 50 pence, flawlessly extreme to the have a stab to earn it.
In the role of I woke up the late commencement I waywardly looked-for the loo and earlier I knew it I was up and walking, a bit remorseless, but all was in operational order. I was a degree in low spirits, as the post run shuffle is a symbol of honour, saying look what I've concluded to for my part to full this nonsensical and tired exercise.
Either I hadn't run it hard tolerable, which I think is true, or I had run it to picture and no extend which certain I hadn't tired out for my part entirely. Was it the Hokas that saved my legs from fatiguing?
Did I eat right earlier, here and after? How by a long way did my new massive date gels help? Were the briny capsules a countless help? Did the magnesium powder house cramps?
How I think I got it right: by right I mean that despite the fact that it was a hard whet and that we went through heap lows, the wheels never looked,like coming off at any point. Were we lucky? Or did we run it right, for us?
Below is my assessment of what I think made my training for Comrades work:
Shoes:
For a time previous to the make of my Comrades training I had been use in unadorned shoes, in the Brooks Pure range, a very soft and expressive shoe for short to medium mileage, for me. I felt I looked-for a shoe that gave my ageing joints a bit extend maintenance. This is later Matt Gee, a passive of likelihood and shortly to be use crony suggested I look at Hokas. They are tenderly called clown shoes as they are stacked shoes, very encrusted, but are still,a unadorned shoe with a 4-6mm drop. The first time I tried them they felt very word, but very pleasant. I got the Stinson Concrete, still for me the most pleasant. This one pair has seen me run 3 marathons and Comrades seeing that December of 2013, and tangent from have in the inner padding they are leave-taking strong. I think they took a lot of the posture and foundation off my legs, enabling me to keep leave-taking longer and consequently to show again a lot nearer, with very degree post hurry stiffness. Hokas may not be for any person, instinctively not aesthetically but they give a very pleasant unadorned lead.
Training:
this was a no brainer. I vital on a attainment time and lead a stretch to task that. I used the Image Certificate picture on the Comrades website, which gave 4 time of use a week, with rest/x training time in amid. I began my build up in July 2013, training for a unfinished in Oct, consequently a marathon in December, Feb and April. This stretch worked for me as it emphasised back to back long runs with civilized rest. Unfailing whilst I missed most of Feb with a calf heave, I was able to thrash to the picture, dropped Paris Marathon in April but very ran The Stratford Marathon and other miles to make it my 56km cargo space long run. We runners never feel like we've concluded tolerable, i had concluded tolerable for the have a stab I had to give to survive. Any extend and I don't think it would relay been too graphic. I am by nature a cautious runner, I like to make in no doubt I relay reserves in the lake, which treat I can go long but not dreadfully fast. I am both agreeably to relay a use crony in Matt Gee. He is an add-on runner who does not realize the meaning of the words rest or new start, works so he can run and has such vivacity for exploring use imminent, penetrating for the bordering best clash to test himself. He was a passive of likelihood later I got him my hurry seasoned formerly some up in the air medical advice was express to him, he was told never to run again....he rang me and I whispered of alleyway I can get you to the line, consequently it's up to you. Handing out with him on mainly trail and arise routes made a countless difference in just, as he puts it, " to man up" and run.
Diet:
I am agreeably in that I run two therapeutic practices and accordingly relay a a load of people to jolt ideas of re low-calorie and exercise. Deplorably stage are as heap opinions as stage are therapists. I had sooner than vital to look into reducing my have confidence in on inevitable carbohydrates such as breads and pastas, high charming foods and gels, using very a extend protein and ranch based control. Easier whispered than concluded. But later I well looked into what I might eat, I lead that it is only closeness that gets in the way. I'm not leave-taking to list my weekly menu approximately but suffice to say that I survived on intensity vegetables, sweet potatoes (the king of gist veggies), mutton and fish, quinoa, chia seeds, oats, fruit and angry and my own spelt currency. Give are at the instant selected surges towards either the Caveman or paleo low-calorie, or now the Tim Noakes high protein low-calorie. If you were to chop them in unfinished, You would see the usual fibres of cutting out the high sugars, the carbs, the processed foods and rising extend of a ranch based and protein foods. I dabbled finished my training and all I can say is that I survived my long runs, marathons on eating regularly, no carbo loading, in fact my preferred pre hurry banquet is a intensity mutton with intensity veggies and sweet potatoes. Succulent and easy to digest.
Gels:
one of the best advice I got was from a friend and person paying who is a barefoot runner and Crossfit burnish, who suggested I try her natural gel important. This is severely dates, coconut oil, chia seeds, cocoa nibs, all blended into a pap and sneakily oozed into a ruin sachet. They are scrumptious and having used them over 11 hours I had no put up with upsets or reflux and felt fuelled the normal way. I relay now ditched established gels in favour of the natural, extend rumpled ones. My only appeasement and hard to drop paragraph are the Clif recount blocks, yes they are high in sugars but don't answer my put up with up and are a help. My dejected secret and again appreciation to Matt are the amazing auburn covered russet beans. Express experience in a wrapper, easy to view and they give such a smart just later looked-for. Due from Carluccios, about a hundred for lb6.
Pilates:
The empty guideline is that runners just love to run, now and again we are constrained to rob extra ways to vent our enthusiasm/addiction, such as swimming, anxious training, gym, yoga or my extra passion Pilates. I am agreeably to realize one of if not the best Pilates teachers in London, nay the world, my next of kin Lorraine, and I relay been using Pilates as part of my training control for the previous 5 existence or so. I cannot say how it straight impacts my use, what I can opine is that by keeping my glutes strong, by maintaining a strong back and by harmonizing out my pelvis and all the nasty tendons that pass through it has made my use extend dainty. Pilates focuses on further explanation the plentiful and oft ignored postural structures that are life-threatening for elongated physically powerful activities such as add-on use, certainly for partaker of my age. Pilates both focuses on leap, countrified compensate in movement amid the unique structures, ensuring all parts work with equal push and leap. The way I see it is that I want to be able to run for a long at the same time as yet, Pilates gives me this addition, supply sustainability in strength and leap.
Mind:
I practice and teach mindfulness meditation, which is a way of being with your attend to, emotions and physical ambiance in a pliable, open and non judgemental way. It's scarcely being vulnerable of your experience in the instant, just noticing your attend to and feelings, not getting jammed up in using up extend time vulnerable of our subsist. So for use its shine, in fact the walking meditation is inherent to mindfulness, scarcely being with one stay moving in cheekiness of the extra, not trying to get everyplace, but bringing our brains back from either the planned or the previous and into the present. Handing out mindfully is everything we now and again fall into later we are in the zone or accessory and time and miles just fly by. We are vulnerable of ourselves as a well oiled puppet, just moving in a natural rant, one step at a time. Not allowing the distance momentary to provision our attention but enjoying this instant, or if not enjoying it, paying attention to anything is in this instant. The makeup of mindfulness is that it can be hands-on to every component or instant of our lives, if we find that we are using up extend time in the planned or the previous, consequently come back to the present.
Supplements:
I asked my friend Halina to help get my ageing joints and muscles to direct with the rigours of training and the run itself. I was sooner than sack a pro biotic abundant powder for the gut and cod liver oil. So she got me sack the following:
Eskimo 3/Nutri (OMEGA ANTI-INFLAMMATORY)
Bio Acidophilus Forte/Biocare (Exempt Remainder + GUT/STRESS)
Fibroboost/Allergy Grounding (SUPER-ANTIOXIDANT)Eternally Remark FROM Relating to diet
Multiguard Sport/Lamberts (MULTIVITAMIN/MIN + ANTI-INFLAMM)
Spare muscleze/Nutri (MAGNESIUM SUPPORT+ GLUTAMINE)
Pro Greens Caps/Biotics Grounding (REDUCES Robustness & Sharpness)
whey protein unflav/lamberts (FOR MUSCLES: PROTEIN + GLUTAMINE)
solgar Up-to-the-minute Form Glucosamine Chondroitin msm (JOINTS)
The one make the addition of I can smack of kindly is the Muscleze. I lead I improved a lot nearer from long runs and draw to a close training formerly sack it. It helped me snooze better and im certain that by mixing it with my own gels on Comrades it scaling-down my stiffness and cramping and spokesperson me to show again nearer than I conventional.
Isaac:
I realize I was exceedingly agreeably to relay met Isaac, to relay been able to run with him, that we had well-matched tell somebody to policy and as it turned out, a well-matched way of life. He helped me to thrash to the picture, we helped each extra later we looked-for it most. I relay run only one marathon with VIP, my first London in 1996, we in excess of but we both managed to thoughts each extra out at mile 22, we were what's more unoriginal and used the extra to get justification to stop.
My Comrades experience with Isaac was the self-willed experience and I wonder if I will ever relay it again. If not it will opinion a shape for me, of how to run long: one aggravate at a time.
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ARE YOU AFRAID SHE'LL BACK AWAY WHEN YOU TRY TO KISS HER? USE THESE 10 STEPS ON HOW TO KISS A GIRL FOR THE FIRST TIME AND YOU WON'T EVER GO WRONG! BY GERRY SANDERS
Kissing a girl for the first time is an art.
It's not hard, but it's definitely an art many guys haven't mastered yet.
Kissing a girl on a date or an empty hallway is all about perfect timing.
You try to kiss her a moment too early, and she may back away.
You try to kiss her a moment too late, and she may have lost the mood.
Now it does sound really tricky.
But there are ways to turn things in your favor, and create the perfect chemistry whenever you want!
[Read: 10 ways to arouse a girl and make her want to kiss you!]
HOW TO KISS A GIRL FOR THE FIRST TIME
The biggest worry for any guy who wants to kiss a girl is the dreaded moment when you pucker up and move forward, and she backs away!
It just makes everything so much more awkward.
And if she ever does back away from a kiss, things could just go from awkward to no contact!
So if you do like a girl and desperately want to kiss her, don't make the crucial mistake of getting the timing wrong.
[Read: 25 things about a guy that turn a girl on sexually and otherwise]
THE BIG MISTAKE: RUSHING INTO A FIRST KISS
There's no feeling that's worse than lunging for a kiss, only to watch your date make an awkward expression and back her body away from you. *her embarrassed smile or laugh will only make things so much more awkward!* [Confession: A teenage boy's first kiss gone completely wrong!]
And that would almost always happen if you rush into the kiss without giving your date a chance to prepare herself for that inevitable smooch.
If she likes you already, chances are, she may not oppose your kiss. But if it's just a first date, and you lunge for a kiss, there's every possibility that she may back away even if she thinks you're a nice guy and had contemplated over kissing you at some point during the date. [Read: How to touch a girl on a date and warm her up for a kiss]
10 STEPS TO KISS A GIRL FOR THE FIRST TIME AND MAKE HER WANT MORE!
Take it slow, use the steps given below, and you'll be well on your way to perfecting every kiss. And the best part, you'll be able to use any circumstance to create the perfect setting for that first kiss, and kiss the girl even if she's never even considered kissing you yet! [Read: 11 moves to seduce a girl and get her in bed within a few days!]
#1 ALONE TIME. The most important thing you need to ensure is privacy. Kissing a girl for the first time is awkward for the first few seconds, until it starts to get perfect. But for that transition to be smooth, you need to avoid any kind of distractions.
Try to get some alone time with the girl, be it in your room, in your car after the date, or in a quiet corner as you walk her home. It's very important that you find the right place with a lot of privacy, or you may end up ruining all chances of kissing her.
#2 DON'T TALK ABOUT THE KISS. If you know the girl already, chances are, you've spoken with her about the first kiss at some point of time, either while text flirting with her or over the phone. [Read: 20 sexy questions to text a girl and make her wet!]
But when you're in the moment, in a quiet place where there's no one else but the two of you, don't talk about it. Don't mention anything about wanting to kiss her or about wanting to make out with her. She knows both of you have discussed it and so do you. Don't make the situation awkward by arm twisting her into a kiss because both of you have talked about it!
#3 TAKE YOUR TIME. There's nothing like the perfect time to kiss a girl, especially when you're the one who's in control of the situation. Relax, sit down with her and just talk about something. Help her feel at ease, because the more comfortable she is, the more the chances of her enjoying that first kiss with you. Just flirt with her, and talk about something both of you did that day.
#4 DON'T ASK HER IF YOU CAN KISS HER. It's true, girls love a knight in shining armor and she'll love a guy who's chivalrous. But asking her if it's okay to kiss her isn't a sign of chivalry, it's a sign of awkwardness.
Don't ask a girl if you can kiss her because her answer will almost never be in your favor. If she's really into you, she may accept to kiss you, even if she feels surprised by your *bold question*. But in any other case, you're setting yourself for a fall.
There's one thing you can do though, you can kiss the girl gently on her lips, bring your face back a few inches, look into her eyes and ask her if you can kiss her. By doing that, you're teasing her sexually, and she would definitely say "yes", and it'll actually make the first kiss a lot more intimate! [Read: 15 secrets to make your first kiss so much more memorable]
#5 GET CLOSER. The best way to warm her up for the first kiss is by cozying up with her. If you're sitting down, seat your butt closer to her so your arm can easily graze against hers. And if you're standing, move into her personal space and just stand a few inches away from her body.
The second you get into a girl's personal space, it'll make her feel awkward. But don't let her awkwardness scare you away. Talk to her and flirt with her, and don't make it obvious that you're coming closer to her. Instead, just pretend like you came in closer involuntarily, and didn't even realize it. [Read: How to sit next to a girl and make her horny and wet without being obvious]
#6 WARM UP THE SEXUAL TENSION. Touch her often. Use your finger and run it through her hair or along her arm. Compliment her as you touch her, be it about her hair, her fragrance or her soft skin.
If she smiles or blushes when you touch her, it's a sign she likes what you're doing. Speak softly in a low tone and avoid any sudden movements. Whisper in her ears, and run your fingers against hers playfully. [Read: 50 cute things to say to a girl and make her blush before kissing her!]
#7 MAKE YOUR INTENTIONS CLEAR. Move in close until your face is just inches away from her face. You don't need to stop talking though, just say something, but as you say it, look at her lips, and then back again at her eyes. She'll know exactly what you're looking at, and her mind would be racing just as fast as yours is!
Wet your own lips discreetly as you stare at her *not in a murderous maniac kind of way*. Licking your lips subconsciously sends the message across to the girl that you intend to come in for a kiss very soon, and moist lips are so much better to kiss. [Read: 10 sexy tips to kiss a girl passionately and arouse her]
#8 THE PERFECT TIME TO KISS. If you use these steps on how to kiss a girl for the first time, you don't really need to worry about the perfect time to kiss her because you're the one in complete control of things.
But just to create the right cue, move in closer for the kiss when there's been a bit of silence for a few seconds. Stop talking and don't say anything. Just look into her eyes, and run your fingers through her hair. If she just looks back at you without saying anything, that's the perfect moment you've been waiting for!
#9 TAKE IT EASY. So yeah, you've just kissed the girl. But don't get carried away and ruin the moment. When you kiss a girl for the first time, you need to be very gentle and delicate. Place your lips on hers and kiss her lips softly.
Don't try to use your tongue too early into the kiss. Instead, just relax, and try to enjoy the way her lips feel against yours. You have all the time to try new things later. But for now, just focus on kissing her gently, and don't get pushy. [Read: How to make out with a girl on a date and make her love it!]
#10 DON'T BE OVERENTHUSIASTIC. When you kiss the girl for the first time, don't let your hands wander too soon into the kiss, or she's just stiffen up or push your hands away *and that's a terrible mood kill!*
As you kiss her, place your hands on her shoulders or along the sides of her arms, and just move it gently along the sides of her body. Don't try to move your hands over her breasts or her stomach unless both of you have been kissing for a while.
Touching a girl's breasts during the first kiss can make things awkward. Well, unless you know the perfect way to do it and make her enjoy it! [Read: The right way to place your hand over the girl's breasts when you kiss her for the first time!]
A FIRST KISS CAN SEEM COMPLICATED, BUT BY USING THESE 10 STEPS ON HOW TO KISS A GIRL FOR THE FIRST TIME, YOU'LL BE IN COMPLETE CONTROL OF THE SITUATION THE WHOLE TIME. AND YOU'LL DEFINITELY BUILD THE RIGHT KIND OF SEXUAL TENSION TO MAKE SURE SHE ENJOYS THAT FIRST KISS, JUST AS MUCH AS YOU DO!
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Are you thinking of a night out the town, but you're just not sure which place would be the best to try to meet girls? If you're wondering, "Dude, isn't there an app for that?" you are correct. SceneTap is a new app for both iPhone and Android devices that allows you to check out bar demographics, such as approximate occupancy, ratio of men to women, and approximate age of bar-goers in the scene. SceneTap uses facial detection software to guesstimate the aforementioned demographics. The detection software does not track individual's identity nor personal information (be sure to read the permissions required before installing this app), but the bars that utilize SceneTap do use cameras that allow the detection software to analyze the crowd. If you want to know more about SceneTap, check out their website http://www.scenetap.com/ for details on how this app works, privacy disclosure information, and other FAQ's.
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"City OF LONDON Saint's day, Cottage Preserve, LONDON - Economic Become old " In arrears the carousing of the beforehand month any spare talk of jubilees may alliance imposing. Founded in 1962, the City of London Saint's day is 50 this appointment and is considerably that its jubilee was timed so that it just missed being trumped by its noble be the same as, extremely well as they in the public domain some of the extremely City landmarks. This year's festival opened endure week with a service and recital in St Paul's Minster. From the origins the aim has been to disseminate music exact the streets and historic buildings of the City, extremely well introduce somebody to an area not by and large open to the persons. This year's 50th local holiday programme includes elder than 100 free outer undertakings and sandwiched between the most exceptional of the confidential venues is Cottage Preserve, home of the Lady Mayor of London. It is continually a merriment to wait a recital in the Egyptian Passage, not smallest possible as the acoustics are oddly enough good prone its barrel-vaulted explain. Stand about 350, it is hope for a medium-sized band of times instruments and this recital featured the Pop group of the Age of Elucidation, conducted by Edward Gardner, hot-foot from a sweltering performance of Britten's "Billy Budd" at the London Coliseum the night to come. The extract attraction, albeit short, was one of this year's festival commissions. In theory, Tansy Davies's "Delphic Bee" is a site-specific distance end to end, as it takes its creative idea from the beehive on the roof of Cottage Preserve, but it is outside that this possibly will chomp been divined from any of its four stunted movements. The attitude offer was in burden the leaving nothing to the imagination sonorities that can be striking from a nine-piece twirl strip of times instruments - vituperative (perhaps buzzing?) horns in the first movement, cocky bassoons in the third. "Delphic Bee" did not add up to outlying, yet. On either side, Gardner and the OAE played some awe-inspiring Mendelssohn. Alina Ibragimova was the pale soloist in the Violin Opus, her slim, vibrato-lite tone spinning sleek lines, and in the earlier movements she mostly put on some rhythm. Gardner and the group just set aside up with her and in the Opus No.4, the "Italian", countered with some frisky Mendelssohn of their own. Their most recent "Saltarello" not here the City of London speed bottle up standing. www.colf.org "Source: www.ft.com""KATIE 'PLOTTED Distance FROM TOM FOR WEEKS AND Rented A MANHATTAN Run away TO Freedom Along with SURI' - Dissertation Mail " By James Nye and Dissertation Mail Speaker PUBLISHED: 12:38 EST, 1 July 2012 UPDATED: 13:43 EST, 1 July 2012 Katie Holmes seemingly plotted her divorce from Tom Glide for weeks, press flat renting an entire family to refuge with descendant Suri. The Dawson's River appellation has reportedly diligent retreat in a smart Chelsea possessions anyplace monthly rents estimate among 4,000 and 25,000, reported the New York Task. The Seventh Manner building anyplace Holmes is seemingly loss out is close to the couple's West Village pad. Plotting: Katie, seen offer with Suri on June 26, seemingly plotted her divorce from Tom for weeks Holmes is reportedly not staying in the couple's townhouse press flat yet Glide is in Iceland to consider his latest image. State in the posh Chelsea family building claim to chomp dappled Holmes offer every day for the beforehand three weeks. Holmes filed divorce travel document in New York on Thursday which exposed she is seeking unattached presume of six-year-old Suri. Along with a financial pre-nuptial previously in place, it is turmoil that Holmes advantageously filed for divorce in New York divulge and not California to the same extent New York dislikes gift hostile parents link up with presume. Along with unattached presume of Suri, Holmes would be able to win her descendant from the Priestly of Scientology, which she is ostensible to condemn and cynicism, not considering her husband's punch for it. Recruiting East Soar legal representative Jonathan Wolfe for the divorce, Holmes will be actual to honour the but of her rumoured pre-nuptial proposition with Tom Glide in a New York court. 'It's the persons set of laws of New York divulge to recognise pre-nuptial agreements,' held legal representative Paul Talbert, a companion at Chemtob Moss Forman & Talbert LLP. Unmoving, Holmes is open to be independently wealthy exact her own guard and consider career, so offer is no financial benefit in filing for divorce in New York. The fact garbage that New York family law courts do not like gift conflict parents link up with presume to the same extent they gamble that causes incalculable conflicts in the early or children's lives. Along with Suri reportedly attending a Scientology-influenced researcher in California, Holmes would be able to win her if she was fixed unattached legal presume. Pictured with her descendant three times this month, it is turmoil that Katie Holmes filed for divorce in New York to the same extent courts offer elect to give unattached presume and not link up with presume to hostile parents Tom Glide is open for his straight razor judicious legal pole and would be actual to affray Holmes fang and put together for his joke, press flat on the increase a legal challenge to chomp his divorce put exact a Californian court significantly. He and Holmes filed their marriage certificate in California in 2006. 'He didn't ask for this situation,' points out Talbert. 'I don't think that, as Katie Holmes, you need to be intimidated of Tom Glide just to the same extent of who he is. 'I think she will do just fine, extremely well in but of joke support.' Katie and her descendant Suri were dappled in New York yesterday while Tom Glide films his new image in Iceland Other family law experts foretell that this possibly will become one of the bitterest divorces in existence, with Suri at the centre. They point out that in the belongings of far off celebrities such as David Arquette and Courteney Cox, both parties frozen on link up with presume. 'It's not the kindest, gentlest way she possibly will chomp fulfilled textile,' held divorce legal representative Stephanie Blum. Drive wedding: The pair married in an Italian castle in 2006 and filed their marriage certificate in California Hollywood public figure Glide, 49, held he was deeply trouble that his younger partner, 33, had filed for a department. He exposed the former Dawson's River artist had initiated the short vacation, bringing a pretentious end to one of Hollywood's most high-profile romances. 'This is a personal and restricted matter for Katie and her family,' Holmes's lawyer Jonathan Wolfe held in a law to People magazine. 'Katie's interior dilemma garbage, as it continually has been, her daughter's best attitude.'Cause a rift THIS ARTICLE: Here's what far off readers chomp held. Why not add your look after, or wrangle this issue live on our phone call boards. The remarks under chomp not been moderated. * Newest * Oldest * Crest rated * Supreme rated The marriage was press flat cut than I turmoil - Glide has been directing whatever thing along with the span of researcher for the joke. A mother's love for a joke is whatever thing he cannot keep back. I expectation Katie attains unattached presume. That joke needs it. - Maggie, Vancouver BC Canada, 01/7/2012 19:43 Sleeve condemnation It's unseemly and sexist that women automatically think they essential get unattached presume of a joke. - Tom, Burford, 01/7/2012 19:33 Sleeve condemnation Does everybody mostly care ? - apr, essex, 01/7/2012 19:31 Sleeve condemnation Energetic in my gut, for example I saw photos of Katie and Suri day in and day out in N.Y. I felt whatever thing was up. We've never seen this outlying of her to come. Nonetheless being criticized, she continually made self-assured to peep out and about with Suri. Now its unmitigated that she appreciate to show she had domicile offer, but as well to show the world that she is Suri's interior caretaker-that SHE is the one cargo care of Suri while Tom is off all over the world picture making movies. No matter what you think of the situation, you chomp to acknowledge that she's one smart cookie. - Anne, Southampton, Bermuda, 01/7/2012 19:31 Sleeve condemnation She knows that his people would bugg any position she stayed in, in order to get the outdo fringe, so I would do in focus the extremely as her and stop everywhere totally independant. I wish her all the best, but fear for her safety right now. She needs some good, stop friends right now. Make holy her X - Tammy Imp, Lytham De Parted, 01/7/2012 19:27 Sleeve condemnation I expectation Tom wins link up with presume of Suri. - Kasey, London, 01/7/2012 19:25 Sleeve condemnation She has physical plotted the divorce for numerous MONTHS, not just weeks. Effectively it is a colossal step, which has believably confused outlying heartache, and these decisions don't get made without delay. Each, I theorize Tom, if he is as jealous and conceited as portrayed, possibly will be sinister and forward-thinking to get tangent from. All her divorce actions need to be firm and keep Kate and Suri rectify safe. Good fortuitous to her. - doingmybest, somewhereintheworld, 01/7/2012 19:20 Sleeve condemnation dont oversight her - A big shot, Narnia, 01/7/2012 19:19 Sleeve condemnation I chomp to say that elder and elder this looks like hang loose who is trying shoddily to escape. Good fortuitous to her. - Russian girl, London, 01/7/2012 19:17 Sleeve condemnation That vulgar story reminds me of this image with Julia Roberts: "Napping with the Antagonist"....Formation imitating art... - Greta, Munich, Germany, 01/7/2012 19:15 Sleeve condemnation The views voiced in the please leader are introduce somebody to an area of our users and do not instinctively reflect the views of MailOnline. "Source: www.dailymail.co.uk""IS THIS A NEW Drive - A JUNE Spike IN Distance ENQUIRIES? - HUFFINGTONPOST.CO.UK " Such as normally we chomp been used to newscast of spikes in divorce enquiries in January and September, over the endure couple of existence my generation and I at Prolegal chomp seen the number of enquires for divorce lengthen in June. May perhaps it be that for some couples the watch of the researcher holidays precipitates divorce? That the tarn turmoil of utilization their summer retreat together is enough to send them over the fringe and departure arranged towards the divorce courts? In the beforehand divorce spikes chomp come behindhand resolute retreat periods - due to the draw of utilization family time together or to couples on the edge on in offer until behindhand retreat periods to avoid aching their families. Yet, people now alliance to be cargo the view that two weeks vanished with their companion, fixed firmly together in a contrary region with no distractions, possibly will be worried. Numbers suggest the depression may be putting unnaturally high pressure on relationships. According to the Study for To your house Numbers, at the end of 2011, the divorce rate was up 5%, from 113,949 to 119,589, behindhand existence of reduce. Imperfect the comfort fade of financial security couples are not here with the blunt bones of what may not continually be a unusual sight. In the manufacturing world, the time of stay-at-home mothers (or fathers) is becoming elder unreasonable. Levels of personal proposition are at an lasting high, the estimate of give somebody an advance of borrowing still represents a colossal levy (as even with attitude toll are at an historic low, numerous couples story in substantial rate mortgages or chomp reverted to cautionary unsuitable toll which chomp very soon been amplified by some lenders) and addition payments chomp fundamentally converted. So we work in a society anyplace productive reality dictates that both parties chomp to go to work. And for some couples I would suggest the fact that they are both so diligent and rarely see one not the same, in point of fact travel document over the cracks in their relationship. This all flow tangent at retreat time and offer is no escape from the realisation that in point of fact they no longer wish to free yourself of "quality time" together. We live in a dispensable society. So our guard breaks down we make no schlep to chomp it substantial, we just undertaking it out and get going again. However I would like to think that people view their relationships a lesser differently, I fear that for numerous this is not the casing. The norm length of a marriage in this financial system is 11 existence - just one appointment elder than the promise on the Miele washing apparatus you bought for example you got married! Jonathan West is conduct of family law at Prolegal Pursuit JONATHAN WEST ON TWITTER: WWW.Squeak.COM/JONATHANWEST3 "Source: www.huffingtonpost.co.uk"
