Pook 6 Lesson Three Judge By Actions Not Words

"A guy called a woman and asked her out. The guy was nervous, was scared; he was shy. "

"So we're set for tomorrow night?

"Umm, yeah," she replied. "

"Subsequently, tomorrow night came. The guy distressed over the date the luxurious day. How indigence he act? Because shall he wear? Did he scoff adequate money? Would he be fun enough?

"But the poor guy realized he was slaughter his time malicious for exhibit was no date. He got stood up. "

"Visibly, exhibit HAD to be a reason. Conceivably no matter which extreme happened. Conceivably her car didn't instigation. Conceivably some glittery point occurred in her life AT THAT Time that set aside out-of-the-way the two article crossed lovers! "

"So he tried again. "Did we miscommunicate?

"Oh, umm...Yeah.

"You still want to go out?"

"Satisfied.

"Let's go out on this and this day. OK?

"OK!

"That day comes. The guy gets stood up yet again. "

"But he rationalized it in another place. She did say she had gear separation on in her life. She did say that she wanted to go out with him. She did say that she wouldn't mind using up time with him. Visibly, no matter which had to scoff come up. After all, she Said she wanted to go! "

"So the guy calls again and sets up choice date. Similarly, he got stood up Once more. "

"Argh!" he screams to himself. "It is my dilemma. For I indigence... "

"Convey BY Goings-on, NOT BY Conference."

Pook also took the young man to a wall with a imposing drawing on it. The drawing showed a young man, extreme like the young man in person, standing forward a female Goliath, a sphinx!

"Because is that monster?" cried the young man.

"Why," alleged the Pook, "it is All Women, Blood relation Flora and fauna herself! This toxic sphinx devours all hearts and lives of populate who cannot answer her underhanded. That man, in the vista, he figured out the underhanded to Being. Accordingly, he became civic as Don Juan."

"And the answer to the riddle?"

"Is that exhibit is no underhanded. Being is a sphinx with no secret. It is only our minds that we assign her secrets, mysteries, pedestals, and goddess-like status."

Pook noticed that the young man was in turmoil so he elaborated. "Appearance at the exceptional example! Appearance at how the lad got stood up over and over and, yet, over and over he rationalized the standing up! How on a regular basis is it that a lad rationalizes 'signals' to his liking? How on a regular basis is it that a lad offers help and materials as sacrifices to her goddess-likeness for in his mind she is a goddess? How on a regular basis is it that a lad's overactive imagination converts her disrespect, her fizz, her flaws, into love?"

"So we slap the image we want to see?"

"Exactly! Convey by her accomplishments and not by her words. Convey by what she does than by what your mind wants to see. Our portentousness will understand the image of every neutral girl into stealthily loving us (for women tell us what we want to pull together). This is why we necessity power by her accomplishments and not by her words."

In advance Pook Chronicle Next-door