Hi guys & girls,I indeed need some pitch on a new-found bump my wife told me a few living ago. Here is some take notes info, been married for 2 years and we antiquated for a meeting previous we got married. It was fast but I felt like I knew her well lots and the relationship was going well. She was the one to ask me out and she moreover asked me to merge her!Ok so my wife has had 2 profound relationships in her life. One that lasted for 4 years and our relationship now. The first relationship extinct about 1.5 years previous we started dating. A few times in the first 6 months of our relationship she told me that she was still contract with some issues regarding her ex BOYFRIEND (the metropolitan area letters will make high opinion past). These issues related to trust given that HE cheated on her a couple of times and she build out and lowly up with HIM. In arrears a 2 month break up they got back for a month but later my wife lowly it off with HIM for good. Ps they lived together for 3 years.She told me all about HIM and what HE used to to and how she wedged HIM fraudulence. How HE used to drink so radically down and be very improbable. So naturally this painted a invent in my mind of this beta DUDE and I was feeling successful of for my part for sowing her that not all guys are like that. She wouldnt talk about HIM radically but I knew lots to gain some insight into what bent her today. Its good to acquaint with if your married what variety of once your ally has as it will consider who they are now.The Bombshell! So at what time two years of marriage she abruptly told me that her EX BOYFRIEND was not a guy at all. It was a Girl. She was in a Lesbian relationship for 4 years and she has only been in 2 profound relationships. One with a Girl and one with me her Partner.This all right knocked me back! I couldnt construe she never told me and even lied about it to my assumed role for 3 years now. Painting a invent of this DUDE in my mind. Im feeling so several dirty emotions right now. Ive no problem about the lesbian end but I ply a vast problem with her not being open. Its moreover a wonderful end that I am her first release relationship. I had no idea about this and it would ply made me radically above cautious when on earth marrying her given that I would want to make certain she knew what she pleasing. I feel so offended that she felt that she couldnt tell me previous now.Whats bad is that I am the handle person to find out and I even talked to some of her friends and family about how this EX BOYFRIEND treated her bad. They never told me it was a Girl so I now feel a bit mortified and im certain they had a chuckle about what I imaginary at what time.Whats moreover getting under my coat is that I always meditation it was strange how my wife was friends with so several lesbians. Lesbians love her and are so flirty with her given that they acquaint with her once from common friends im guessing. I always laughed it off and meditation it was slight that girls and guys meditation my wife was hot but now im improbable about it given that she wasnt honest.For example she gets flirty lesbian texts all the time from unyielding friends and I meditation it was just fun and lightheartedness but now I see that it may well be above-board flirting.Equally sometimes we go on nights out separate given that I want some beers with the guys and she wants to join with her friends. She would go to lesbian bars with her friends which for me was remarkable slight as she wouldnt be hit on by grotty inebriated dudes all night and she may well go and make use of herself. Now I see it differently for aggregate reasons and I dread if they try to tempt her to try a lesbian relationship again. Im so offended right now as I was advent to feel very realm in my relationship given that I felt like I supposed my wife all right. I felt very close to her.Now I just feel incoherent and like I dont even acquaint with the person im married to. If she can lie to my assumed role about this for 3 years later what besides has she not told me or lied about?Since makes it lesser is that she refuses to particular that she lied. She says all the stories were true but she just singular the gender. I told her that in clever she would be untrue end of story and she couldnt wrangle against that.I indeed need some input and pitch on this given that right now I dont acquaint with what to think.
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