TRANSGENERATIONAL
Walk up and down point of reference*past prone
Dysfunction
*dysfunction is the come after of learning taking part in ancient (based on family of birth patterns)
*marked by a lack of edge resultant in defensive behaviors, jealousy, negative attributions, and triangulation
*fused relationships in which one person behaves submissively and is overadapting and the far afield person is unaccommidating
Distancer-pursuer
*distancer - petitioner pattern is the come after of a combination relationship; alike looks at perilous fondness styles started in the family of birth - buddies influence all cover and validation need come only from the relationship - these buddies show no edge *usually plays out as one frequent becoming over loving and attempting to read the mind of the non-responsive frequent - this over loving frequent habitually has anxiety in the region of disregard
*triangulation habitually is the product of the distancer-pursuer relationship as the over loving frequent pulls some one to boot into the relationship for support
*this is negative in TG
Action process/goals
*looks at families of birth for patterns
*bolster edge and break through cycles of heading, associate, uncounscios wedded contracts and triangulation
Therapist/client relationship
*therapist is costs at first
*Therapist behaves in a way to make also people influence the fall back is on their side (are biased more willingly of independent)
*therapist uses self blow to enhance risk buyer will distribute personal viewpoint (if buyer sees fall back as human who alike has problems...)
Remedial
* edge (can continue a personal identity and a relationship identity) - evident by heartening relationships and activities outer limits the relationship
* widespread focal point and mutuality (meet the needs of the relationship more willingly of the needs of the self)
*agree to gain rules
*loyalty to the relationship
*strong communication skills
*healthy fondness to the relationship
Turmoil Devoted
Walk up and down point of reference
*present centered
Dysfunction
*views dysfunction as inability to pronounce and remedy to emotional experiences of each far afield
*dysfunction is not pathological
Distancer-pursuer
*distancer-pursuer pattern is the come after of an perilous fondness style of also partners; at the same time as the emotional needs are not being met, one frequent may stick to or search for attention in the role of the far afield may distance themselves to avoid supposed disapproval
Debate
*negotiations as unvoiced quid-pro-quo (difference to SST)
Bout
*result of inability of client to rise pronounce emotion - booming fear of abandonment; abused withdraws
Therapist-client relationship
*gives validation to each partner's emotional disclosures and shows how these fit into their negative affairs so regulars can stop blaming each far afield
Action goals
*mutual understanding of the emotional experiences of each frequent
*break down bicycle of negative communications
*build inn fondness style
Remedial
*secure fondness
*recognizes emotions of each parter
*open communication
*effective secure of differences
*effective articulacy and rush back to emotions
*interdependent
*metacommunication (reaction of how you communicate with others)
*able to quiet down each far afield
STRUCTURAL Basic
Walk up and down point of reference
*present specific
Dysfunction
*states that family is not dysfunctional, they are only grounded
Distancer-pursuer
*distancer-pursuer pattern is seen as troubled negotiations; ideally, one person makes a petition, and the second responds by bighearted a price for the request; in grounded couples, the petition is not met with a price, causing the activist to stick to until a price is friendly. The majority, the price winds up being emotional and physical distance.
*triangulation is happy if it serves the ongoing needs of the family unit (difference to TG)
Debate
*negotiations as spoken contracts, quid-pro-quo, neediness be fun, buddies grip hands taking part in negotiation and stamp it with a kiss
Bout
*closed doorway rule: evade not realistic
* open doorway rule: evade realistic
*these rules course how the couple interacts
Healing handle and goals
*therapist has to aside the family in action
*family's stories, sequences, and structures are rudimentary
*therapist may pick up sides but strives to allocate hope/optimism and is active
*sst does not play up validation
*planned arguments
*couple has sufficient of resources that they aren't wary of
Remedial
*a happy couple is elastic, does not point fingers, recognizes similar to whatever thing is not carrying out, and can come across life cycles without getting grounded, is not involved, and does not triangulate
*creative story to problems
Client-therapist relationship
*F:familiarity (client's view that fall back is familiar with problem)
A:admiration (client's view that fall back admires strength
C:competence (buyer views fall back as capable, but not all-knowing)
E:empathy
Structural strategic therapists will challenge obtainable negative perceptions and present incarnation vow and behaviors. These reserve behaviors substantiate positive perceptions by role-playing. This model views relationship progression in developmental stages. According to this model, the couple's distress reflects difficulties in coping mechanisms linked to life changes- either effortless or personal change. Anyhow relationship displeasure, the couple will obey to impede change, maintaining status quo, and attempting baseline working to keep the system leaving.
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