We ALL have (and yes we're raising our hands here too)...
So, what exactly are we talking about when we use the terms "embarrassing" or "not-so-you" love moments?
It's a moment where you might normally be kind and loving but you say or do something that certainly doesn't come off that way...
It could be that you were harsh or critical about someone you love behind their back, they find out about it and then because you value your love (or friendship), you've got some explaining to do...
If you're a woman, it might be the way you say NO to his desires to have some fun in the bedroom when you might ordinarily say YES...
If you're a man, it could be a sudden "performance issue" in the bedroom...
It could be agreeing to do something you didn't really want to do (and getting upset about it later)...
You get the idea...
An embarrassing or "not-so-you" love moment could be anything where you're simply not acting or reacting in a way that would be the most loving, kind or connecting way or not the way things would normally be for you.
So, what do you do in moments like these to bring some sanity to situation that could lead to an even bigger mess or require some even fancier dancing to get out of?
Here are some very simple love ideas that we think you'll find helpful in many situations...
And while we're thinking about it--the tragedy for many women and men who come to us for our one-on-one "Relationship Reverse" love coaching by telephone and skype is that the sometimes VERY difficult situations they
find themselves in could have (in many cases) been avoided if they had done some of the things we're about to share with you earlier...
So here are a few pointers about how to deal with situations like this...
Reference: quick-pickup-rules.blogspot.com
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