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1. Sternness of expression. Not smiling. Anxiety. Relaxed people are approachable. Tense people are not.2. Shes busy, or might be busy or I have no valid pretext to start a meaningful conversation.
3. She doesnt seem to share my interests, or Im not in a venue where I would expect someone to share my interests. Back when I was single, I would never hit on girls in bars, for example. And "we both go to the gym" isnt enough of a common bond for me. Thats not a good environment for long, relaxed conversations.
4. As others have said, shes rude to other people.
5. If someone was more than several inches taller than me, Id assume they werent interested unless they indicated that they were, or unless we had a lot of interests in common.
5. Not every woman who considers herself attractive is going to be attractive to the people around her. Just like not every woman who considers herself unattractive is actually failing to attract male attention. So one possibility is; she isnt really attractive to me. Id really like to see a list of pictures of women who complain that theyre too attractive for men to approach them.
6. She seems involved with someone else, or seems to be.
7. I have no valid pretext to start a conversation, or, if I say something she doesnt give a quick indicator that she wants to continue the conversation. I assume that women get a lot of unwanted attention and dont want to add to the pile. Thats part of why I met people through online dating. It seemed fair for them to expect people to initiate there, because that was the nature of the venue. Parties are an environment where people are expected to socialize, so Id be more outgoing there.
8. Were not in a situation where wed naturally see one another again. Ive only asked for womens phone numbers a few times in my life and dont like talking on the phone to near-strangers. So either we really hit things off and talked for an hour or two or Ill have the chance to see her again without asking.
9. Shes dressed in a very expensive, conservative, storebought outfit that suggests that shes high maintenance or that she competes in fashion based primarily on price.
10. Shes dressed in an overtly sexual manner (say, very short gloss black skirt, fishnet stockings, etc. ) Basically, if she seems like someone who would make me compete with a lot of other guys in some way.
11. As Jordan Harbinger said; fear of rejection. But thats something that can be addressed by the woman so Im trying to treat the matter in more detail.
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Source: quick-pickup-rules.blogspot.com
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