How To Become More Confident Around Girls

Talking to girls or women can sometimes be pretty intimidating. It is all right if you feel this way, yet you can also learn some basic principles that will make you become more confident in speaking to any girl. You can learn how to become more confident around girls by practicing some simple tips which will seem obvious to you.

Have a correct posture

The most important thing when wanting to talk to a girl is to have a proper posture. No one, girl or boy will want to talk to you if you have a bad posture. So, keep your head forward, always make sure that you have your back straight (do this even when you are not talking to anyone because if someone sees you with a bad posture, you might have problems talking to them later on). Also keep your eyes focused forward because this inspires confidence and girls are drawn to this. When you talk to a group of girls or one girl make sure that you look her right into her eyes. It is very important to make eye contact and although it might seem hard to do at first, you will become more familiar with this by doing it every time. Practice will make you better.

Talk to them

Another thing you really have to practice in order to learn how to become more confident around women or girls is to make it a habit to talk to some girls each day. Do it every single day! Talk to them more than once if possible. You should do this because this way you will feel more and more comfortable around girls and soon you won't be afraid to talk to them anymore. The more you talk to them the better you will feel and you will become more confident after a while. And, by talking to as many girls as you can, you will begin to work on another important aspect which we will talk about now.

Do your homework

In order to become more confident around girls, you will have to learn what their interests are and generally learn more about them. Read books and magazines about this subject and make some written notes. Never just rely on your memory for this because there will be things that you will forget. Just write everything down and read it once or twice per week just to make sure you don't forget. Also, it would be great if you had a good, female friend that you could talk to about this. Ask her more about girls and take notes.

Tell her that you want to get to know more about her and girls in general. If she is a good friend, she will help. You could also ask your girlfriend (if you have one at the moment). And, another option, although it is one that might scare you, is to talk about girls with your mother. Even though you may not think this is a good idea, you might be wrong. Your mother might know more about girls than you could ever imagine and she could give your some very useful pointers. And, you will also connect with her more by talking to her about these things.

Dress nicely

What I mean by this is don't overdo it with the clothes you wear. You don't need to stand out, but don't dress in any kind of clothes either. Again, for getting an idea on which clothes would make you look better, you should both read about the subject (online, books, magazines) and talk to girls about this. Ask that good friend of yours about the clothes she thinks would make you look good. You don't have to spend a lot of money on clothes, you just have to know what would look good on you.

Now you know pretty much about how to become more confident around girls. It's time you started applying all of this!

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