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National Geographic Magazine (1948) My 16-year-old daughter wants to get her driver's license! Point. 2.. Help! My family made me explode with anger. - Please give me some advice! (10 February, 2012/17 Shevat 5772)
Words I think we paralyze our children when we hold reasonable experiences of their peers because of our concern. Each stage of the independence of our children, it is difficult for us. This means they grow - and away from us. Almost nothing that marks more spectacular than getting a driver's license and the "freedom" it gives way. We must give them appropriate guidance (this is not you, we do not trust, it's the other guy) and rules, lessons and warnings - and lots of practice. And then we have to let go and recognize that like everything else, this is also in the hands of the Almighty Puissant.Point.. 1) aish.com. Teenage Driver Help! My 16-year-old daughter wants to get her driver's license! Am I being too overprotective? October 3, 2011/5 Tishrei 5772par Emuna Braverman www.aish.com / / by / Dear Emuna Teenage Driver.html Dear Emuna, My daughter just turned 16 and she really wants to get his driver's license. She keeps whining about it and complains that we are overprotective. She says "all other parents leave." Should be given fair? Is she right - Parents of adolescentsCher POT, I think there are at least two separate issues. The first is the oft-repeated phrase: "All the other parents let" If I had a dollar for every time a teenager said that It is almost never true and is almost always a tool for handling this.. does not mean that you should not be flexible. This does not mean that you should not listen to reasonable arguments. This does not mean that you should not assess the seriousness of the situation (I changed my mind and given much demand for pajamas when it turns out that other parents actually "rent".) The specific issue at stake is the engine. I've always been in favor of raising the driving age up. that I heard the results of a recent study Apparently, in countries where the legal driving age is now 18 instead of 16, there are few accidents in 16 years - for obvious reasons.? But guess what rose It is true, the number of accidents in the 18-year-old category There is no question that driving is risky -.. and traumatic for parents, but it is a risk that the world accepts. It is part of growth. It is part of the creation of adult enfants.Je think we paralyze our children when we hold reasonable experiences of their peers because of our concern. Each step independence of our children, it is difficult for us this means they grow -.. away from us and almost nothing that marks most spectacular way to get a driving license and the "freedom" that We must give it provides appropriate instructions (it's not you, we do not trust, it's the other guy) and rules, lessons and warnings -. and lots of practice and. then we have to let go and recognize that like everything else, this is also in the hands of the Almighty -... Dear Emuna Emuna, My husband and I have a very good marriage We can talk about anything and. enjoy the company of others. us Our parenting styles are still in phase. There is only one problem that can sometimes be a source of conflict. My husband is sociable and gregarious. He loves a big party and a scene from " happening. "I'm more introverted. I do not like the hustle and bustle of a large gathering. And I do not particularly like social expectations. Like conversations with a small group of friends. Sometimes I I feel like holding him to have fun and there is something wrong with me Dislikes everyone a good evening -.? LonerCher Raver - No, one question You are a lucky lady. The Almighty has done all different types of people with different traits. Some are extroverts and some are introverts. Neither quality is morally superior to another. They are just different aspects of what we are. We can not be who we are not. You and your husband have probably been attracted to each other, because you wanted everyone a little of what you missed, a little of what your partner. then enjoy. If your husband had wanted a party girl, he would have married each une.Vous can engage in separate activities during which the desires of your natures clash. And, like all other areas of marriage, you may also be led to compromise. You may have to accompany him to some large social gatherings. He can stay at home with you and a small group of friends, or maybe just you! can both learn and. grow each other and your distinct and different experiences The key is not to judge each other -. or yourself, as I said, nor the quality is superior (though sometimes society places more value. the extrovert) This is how the Almighty made you - and it is not wrong -... Dear Emuna Emuna, We always open our guest house and my husband and I love it.. I do not fear punishment because I enjoy the experience. Sometimes our customers are friends and sometimes they are strangers. I do not expect that they help me cook or put the table even bring a gift (although I happen to think it's a good character and says something about their mother if they do not.) But there is one thing that always clears my husband d'erange.Mon. the table (with the help of my children) and sometimes invited to stay there while he is not complaining, but it really bothers me Advice on how to deal with this -.? (Just) Good H^otesseCher Hostess, if the example of your husband did not encourage them to stand up and clear, it is difficult to imagine anything will, except perhaps a direct request. It requires a particular stupidity and selfishness to sit back, not lift a finger, as your host clears the table. This is a bad trait ingrained that you're most likely not change character. If you wish to continue receiving guests, you. need to make peace with it I must admit that if customers are rude, this may be their first - and only -. invitation Personally, I do expect to participate in the conversation when people come to a meals (otherwise I feel like a waitress' party of two at the end of the table "), but maybe some of them are actually more introverted as the writer in question # 2 and I judge ! adversely You must be a donor only - without expectation of anything in return is the only way to make any kind of kindness And I think it is quite possible that they look pretty.. often, you will slowly have an impact - perhaps their choice of companion anyway -. Emuna Point.. 2) aish.com HOME CURRENT ISSUES Q A TEEN Q A for Teens: Bach and engueuladeAu help my family made me explode with anger. Code. img picture Bach and bawling.. Q A for Teens media.aish.com/images/QATeenBachShouting230x150-E.jpg.. 10 February 2012/17 Shevat 5772par Lauren Roth www.aish.com / ci / teen / QA for Teens Bach the Shouting Matc Dear Lauren, I'm tired of my family. They are always fighting and shouting at each other, especially me. They are always criticizing me, yelling at me for something stupid and make a big deal out of nothing until they get the best of me and I shout in return, no matter how I try not to. What bothers me most is that when they finally make me explode They always tell me: "Why do you cry out to your family?" And they make me feel really bad. They are the ones that make me explode. They receive I am really trying hard to stay calm, but their cries, insults, and the attitude that it is almost impossible. Please give me some advice! What is your favorite piece of classical music? (No, "Oops! I Did It Again" does not qualify as classical music, and neither "Born in the USA" or "Sweet Child O'Mine") The classic pieces that I ' love the most are the Brandenburg Concertos by Johann Sebastian Bach. If you've never heard of them, do yourself a favor and listen (including No. 5). They are absolutely divine! (And I bet many of you agree.) Would you believe they were rejected by the governor of Brandenburg? Bach wrote the pieces and sent to the said Governor, asking if he would like to hire Bach to create the music for it on an ongoing basis. In "Do not call us, we'll call you" move, Bach never heard back from the governor. It's a good thing he kept a copy of the Brandenburg Concertos The partition was left, unused, in the library of the governor until his death in 1734, when it was sold for what would today My point is this:. many great things are not recognized, not for their size and many large Things are not recognized until much later. Your family can blame unfairly. They might yell at you when shouting is not necessary. Your job is to do the right thing, regardless of whether you receive approval from those you surround or non.Cliquez here to receive free weekly email of Aish.com.Donc, your critical family screams and hurls insults. I'm sorry you have to deal with the inconvenience of antagonism. I sense to you because of the pain that must have caused. However, their bad behavior and your reaction to their behavior should be two different entities. I know how difficult it is to stand strong in the face of disapproval, but as Bach, your work in your family circle (your work as a person in this world) is to try your own personal drive to do what you believe is right, no matter what those around you are, and no matter if you receive the congratulations of rotten tomatoes or 'emotionnels.Quand I talk with children of all ages (from 10 to 70 years) who do not receive approval and positive attention from their parents and other family members that if they are thirsty, I try to empower them with the following idea: you are one talks to me, ergo YOU ?are the only one to notice the inaccuracy of behavior of your family, and you are the only one looking for a better way. Consequently, you can not possibly be the only one to turn the family dynamics autour.Ce does not matter that you are the child and the parents are the instigators, anyone can change the negative cycle of criticism and to fight for a peaceful cycle to give, share and care. All it takes is a strong person to have enough self-awareness to himself or herself to remove it from the mixture antagonism, keep his head above water, stay calm, and said respectfully and affectionately, "It's really hurting my feelings. Let us all respect each other. Can we please talk about, instead of scream? "Just a strong and courageous person with a vision of serenity and peace to change a dynamic familiale.La first time you say that others expect to shout some expletives, laugh at you, tell you you are the cruelest of all, you tell your "better than thou" attitude is really boring, or all of the above. But if you always stay calm and loving and respectful and refuse to be drawn into the maelstrom of emotions swirling anger, your reassuring presence may possibly bring stress levels down and can calm inflammatoires.Il reactions takes one person strong and courageous with a vision of serenity and peace to change family dynamics. I've seen it happen several fois.J 'have a good idea: get a copy of Bach's Brandenburg Concertos. When you feel stressed and frazzled and terribly angry against your family, go to a quiet place and listen to this music. Take many breaths. Get yourself centered and calm. Then focus on your goal. Your goal is to do the right thing, no matter what anyone around you to push you towards it. Consider that this uplifting music has been totally rejected, and an erroneous assessment of the music that was. Know that your family can make mistakes. They can yell and insult and criticize, but it does not push your buttons because you can choose to be better than that. Get calm yourself so that you can have a calm discussion with them instead of engueulade.J 'have a favorite quote from Victor Frankl, the founder of a branch of psychology called logotherapy, and a survivor of the concentration camp : "Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom. "In the space between stimulus and response is our humanity. In this space between stimulus and response is our personal spiritual path that God has put us here on Earth pour.Vous can be one of your family to change melody.
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